For adolescents around the world, academic workload and other school-related demands are stressors that prompt many coping responses (Raftery-Helmer & Grolnick,
2015). Without adequate coping, academic stressors can have a cumulative negative effect and substantially interfere with motivation, engagement, and optimal learning, change future opportunities (Skinner & Saxton,
2019), and contribute to personal distress and psychological disorders (Schönfeld et al.,
2019). Furthermore, academic stressors can occur for many different reasons. Some adolescents report workloads that overwhelm their abilities and their time but, for others, stressors are more internal or intrapsychic and relate to high self-expectations of achievement and pressure to be the very best (Sun et al.,
2011). Another source of stress can be external, with parents and teachers directly communicating that adolescents could and should do better academically. In fact, these are the three most common reasons for academic stress: a perceived high level of schoolwork (
workload pressure), an internal drive for high achievement (
intrapsychic pressure), and external pressure to achieve from parents or teachers (
external pressure; Bjorkman,
2007). The recognition that adequate coping is needed to overcome these forms of academic stress, and that stressful events and coping can affect adolescents’ development and well-being, has led to a great deal of research identifying how teachers (Raftery & Grolnick,
2018) and the classroom environment (Shih,
2015) can support adolescents’ coping. Yet, parent-adolescent relationships have also been linked to adolescents’ academic ways of coping (Zimmer-Gembeck & Locke,
2007), but no previous research has considered how support
and negative interactions with parents may uniquely account for adolescents’ ways of coping with the multitude of academic stressors they can encounter (Skinner & Saxton,
2019). To fill this gap, the roles of parental support and parent-adolescent negative interactions in adolescents’ engagement and disengagement ways of coping with workload, intrapsychic, and external sources of academic stress were investigated in the current study.
Academic Stressors and Ways of Coping: Engagement and Disengagement Coping
Regardless of the source of academic stress, adolescents rely on a range of ways of coping in response (Morales-Castillo,
2022). Academic coping includes the many ways that students respond when they face academic challenges, setbacks, and difficulties (Skinner et al.,
2013). To develop a specific understanding of the different ways students can cope, scholars interested in academic coping have relied on the numerous categorizations of coping that have been developed across decades of research on stress and coping (e.g., Skinner & Saxton,
2019). One conceptualization that has been very useful for understanding child and adolescent achievement and well-being has been the differentiation of engagement from disengagement ways of coping (Conner-Smith et al.,
2000).
Engagement includes coping responses that orient towards the stressor to tackle it more directly or to engage others in providing support.
Disengagement coping encompasses responses that involve turning away from active attempts to modify the stressful event or reduce distress – sometimes even prompting more distress through excessive worry or self-blame. Within an academic context, engagement coping has been shown to be most adaptive for promoting academic achievement, participation, and tenacity. Students who approach and engage with challenges to learn, achieve better grades, and are more behaviorally involved and emotionally positive about school (Skinner et al.,
2020). For example, engagement forms of coping, such as strategizing and seeking information, have been found to reduce future stress and have been positively related to intrinsic interest in learning (Appelhans & Schmeck,
2002). Conversely, in this same study, disengagement ways of coping (e.g., concealing problems, ruminative thoughts about workload or achievement pressures, or minimizing the importance of schoolwork) were related to lower academic performance.
Engagement and disengagement ways of coping can follow from adolescents’ experiences of academic stress from workload, intrapsychic expectations for achievement, and/or external pressures (Morales-Castillo,
2022). Engagement ways of coping encompassed some of the most active approach responses appropriate for academic stressors, namely strategizing, help-seeking, comfort-seeking, self-encouragement, and commitment to the task or goal. Disengagement ways of coping, which align with avoidance or nonproductive forms of coping, were measured as confusion, concealment, self-pity, rumination, and escape. Taken together, these ways of coping with academic stressors capture the range of strategies that adolescents report relying on to manage their emotions and motivations related to academic pressures, to improve (or worsen) the stressful situation, and to put in place plans or solve problems in ways that can reduce (or worsen) the likelihood of academic stressors becoming chronic and impairing (Skinner et al.,
2016).
Multiple strands of research provide evidence supporting the focus on this range of academic coping responses. In this past research, student well-being, motivation, participation, and achievement have been found to be associated with engagement coping (Shih,
2015; Wang & Eccles,
2012). Other past research identified concealment (possibly the antithesis of help-seeking) as blocking participation and learning (Ryan et al.,
2005), and escape, withdrawal, helplessness, and rumination as indicators of avoidance of tackling academic challenges (Skinner et al.,
2016; Vizoso et al.,
2019). This research has found that these disengagement ways of coping make academic participation and achievement more difficult, and they relate to increased distress, burnout, and the likelihood of giving up. Although coping is sometimes considered to be an individual affair, many of these coping responses include the involvement of other people, for example, in providing opportunities for help and comfort when it is sought or in constraining opportunities for assistance that might make escape, withdrawal, and concealment more likely. This fits with decades of research indicating that the availability of social resources can impact stress and coping (Lazarus & Folkman,
1984). When it comes to schoolwork, some of the most important social resources for academic stressors can be found in relationships with parents.
Parents have been frequently described as a primary source of modeling and socialization of their children’s development of coping (e.g., see Skinner & Zimmer-Gembeck,
2016 for a review). The recognition of the role of family in learning about (and the development of) coping has led those with a developmental view of stress and coping to encourage a greater focus on identifying the social foundations of coping itself (Skinner and Edge
2002a). For example, in a review, Compas et al. (
2001) proposed that researchers “need to pay closer attention to the social context in which children encounter and try to cope with stress” (p. 122). Given the recognition of the importance of this topic, there has been research on the teacher-relationships and school contexts that assist adolescents to better cope with academic stress (Raftery-Helmer & Grolnick,
2018), but there not been much attention on parent-adolescent relationships. For example, in a recent review of studies of academic coping, only 16 of the 66 reviewed studies considered social antecedents, and, of these, most considered teachers and classroom contexts (Skinner & Saxton,
2019).
The idea that parent-adolescent relationships should be social foundations for adolescents’ academic coping is supported by self-determination theory (SDT; Deci & Ryan,
1985), which has suggested that when parents meet child and adolescent needs for relatedness, competence, and autonomy, this encourages their engagement, and minimizes their disengagement, ways of coping with stressors (Ntoumanis et al.,
2009; Skinner & Edge,
2002b). Parents can support adolescents’ psychological needs for relatedness, competence, and autonomy through the provision of support and involvement, encouragement, and communication and feedback about progress in and outside of school, and by using autonomy supportive strategies to encourage choice, participation, and internalized motivation for success (Klootwijk et al.,
2022). Central to an SDT-influenced motivational theory of the development of coping is the understanding that attachment (communication and trust in the parent-adolescent relationship), and, conversely, experiences of coercion and rejection in important social relationships will influence whether coping or patterns of action when facing stress will involve engagement or disengagement (Skinner & Wellborn,
1994). Thus, social environments that include relations that are connected and warm are expected to promote positive, active, and engaged coping behaviors. Social environments that include relationships with others that are hostile, rejecting, and coercive will yield unproductive, avoidant, and disengaged or helpless coping responses.
The theoretical ways that parents may influence their children’s coping are wide-ranging and include coaching and modeling, the quality of the parent-child relationship, the family environment, and family structure (Power,
2004). Of these influences, general parental support versus rejection and coercion are the aspects of parenting that may most directly spill over into academic stress and coping. For children and adolescents, good communication and trust in the support of a parent are closely connected to coping responses and, as outlined in detail in attachment theory (Zimmer-Gembeck et al.,
2017), adolescents’ and adults’ coping can be more productive when there is just the possibility that positive support is available (for example, the belief that talking to a parent is possible). Thus, by adolescence, perceived availability of parental support would be expected to be a resource for greater action and more engaged coping responses to academic stress. Conversely, if parents are perceived as unsupportive, rejecting, hostile, and coercive, this might translate to unproductive responses when adolescents are coping with academic stressors. In one of the only studies to examine these relations, cohesive, low conflict, communicative families were more likely to model active coping behaviors for children, and they had children who more frequently used active coping behaviors and exhibited fewer problematic responses when dealing with stressful events (Kliewer et al.,
1996). In a second study, adolescents who reported more involved and autonomy supportive parents used more engagement (i.e., active) coping with problems at home and at school (Zimmer-Gembeck & Locke,
2007). Although no previous study was found that had examined whether parental support and negative interactions between parents and adolescents are associated with adolescents’ engagement and disengagement coping with academic stress, one study of 183 young adolescents reported that parental involvement was associated with more mastery academic coping (i.e., problem-solving, help-seeking, and support for feelings), but not associated with defensive coping (i.e., rumination and blame) after receiving a bad grade (Raftery-Helmer & Grolnick,
2018).
Age
The early to middle adolescent years bring change in academics, relationships, stressors, and skills at coping. This age period is when parent-child relationships may become more negative in their interactions (Branje,
2018) as adolescents desire more autonomy and parents are adjusting to these changes (Zimmer-Gembeck et al.,
2011). In addition, from early to middle adolescence, academic demands and external pressures can increase (Seiffge-Krenke et al.,
2009), and there is evidence that engagement may decrease and disengagement coping may increase with age (Ben-Eliyahu & Kaplan,
2015) alongside a general increase in school demands and decrease in connection to school (Skinner & Saxton,
2019). Thus, in general, age-related changes have been found in academic stress level, ways of coping, and negative interactions with parents across the early to middle adolescent years. All such adolescent (as well as family and school-related) changes suggest that age should be accounted for when studying relations between parent-adolescent relationships, academic stressors, and ways of academic coping.