Several measures such as interviews and questionnaires are available for assessing PRF (Anis et al.,
2020; Schiborr et al.,
2013). The Parental Reflective Functioning Questionnaire (PRFQ) is a time- and cost-efficient 18-item instrument for measuring PRF in parents of children aged 0–5 years (Luyten et al.,
2017; Luyten et al.,
2017) that has generally shown good validity and reliability (Anis et al.,
2020; Luyten et al.,
2017; Luyten et al.,
2017; Rutherford et al.,
2015). In contrast to other measures, yielding a global score of PRF, the PRFQ is multidimensional, measuring three dimensions of PRF. (1) Pre-mentalizing (PM) is defined as limited mentalizing or a non-mentalizing stance, where the parent makes maladaptive and malevolent attributions about the child’s mental states (e.g., “My child cries around strangers to embarrass me”). Low scores on this dimension characterize optimal PRF. (2) Certainty about Mental States (CMS) is defined as the level of certainty in attributing mental states to the child and the recognition of the opacity of mental states (e.g., “I can completely read my child’s mind”). Low scores reflect hypomentalizing, where the parent is overly uncertain about the child’s mental states, whereas high scores could reflect hypermentalizing, where the parent fails to recognize the opaqueness of mental states. Thus, medium scores on this dimension characterize optimal PRF. (3) Interest and Curiosity (IC) in infant mental states is defined as the parent’s curiosity in and active willingness to understand the child’s mental states (e.g., “I am often curious to find out how my child feels”). Low scores on this dimension indicate hypomentalizing, reflecting a lack of interest in the child’s mental states, whereas some studies suggest that very high scores might indicate hypermentalizing, reflecting an excessive or intrusive interest in the child’s mental states. Thus, medium to high scores on this dimension characterize optimal PRF (Luyten et al.,
2017).
Parental Mentalization and Child Socioemotional Development
Parental mentalization is important for child socioemotional development. When measured as a unidimensional construct, parental mentalization has been found to promote attachment security and the ability to regulate emotions, and increases the understanding of one’s own and others’ mental states (Camoirano,
2017: Ensink et al.,
2016; Esbjørn et al.,
2013; Heron-Delaney et al.,
2016; Salo et al.,
2021; Slade et al.,
2005; Smaling et al.,
2017; Zeegers et al.,
2017).
Although when measured as a unidimensional construct, parental mentalization has been found to be related to child socioemotional development, recent research indicates the need to perceive PRF as a multidimensional construct to disentangle the effects of the different dimensions of PRF on child socioemotional development (Smaling et al.,
2017). However, to date only two studies (Gordo et al.,
2020 and Nijssens et al.,
2020) have examined how the different dimensions of PRF relate to child socioemotional development.
Gordo et al. (
2020) examined the relationship between PRF and child socioemotional development in a cross-sectional study of 433 mothers and 113 fathers of infants aged 2–36 months (
M = 16 months). They used the PRFQ to assess PRF, and the Ages & Stages Questionnaires: Social-Emotional, Second Edition (ASQ:SE-2; Squires et al.,
2015) to assess child socioemotional development. When including both mother and fathers in the analysis, they found that all three PRF subscales correlated with child socioemotional development. Furthermore, they found that pre-mentalizing had a direct negative effect on child socioemotional adjustment and an indirect effect through parental competence, while certainty about mental states and interest and curiosity affected child socioemotional adjustment indirectly through parental competence (Gordo et al.,
2020). These results were similar when examining mothers and fathers separately.
As part of a longitudinal study, Nijssens et al. (
2020) examined the relation between PRF in mothers and fathers and infant socioemotional development in a sample of 53 couples with children aged 19–26 months. PRF and child socioemotional development were both measured at the second time point of the study using the PRFQ and the Brief Infant-Toddler Social and Emotional Assessment (BITSEA; Briggs-Gowan & Carter,
2002), respectively. The results of this study showed that higher levels of pre-mentalizing in mothers and fathers, when measured separately, were associated with lower child socioemotional adjustment while certainty about mental states and interest and curiosity were not associated with child socioemotional development (Nijssens et al.,
2020).
To sum up, although research where PRF is measured as a unidimensional construct has consistently found PRF to be related to child socioemotional development, knowledge about how the different dimensions of PRF are related to child socioemotional development is still sparse. Results from the two studies examining multidimensional PRF and child socioemotional development showed that higher levels of pre-mentalizing negatively affected child socioemotional development (Gordo et al.,
2020; Nijssens et al.,
2020), but the results regarding the associations between certainty about mental states and interest and curiosity and child socioemotional development were mixed. One study showed indirect effects on child socioemotional development through parental competence (Gordo et al.,
2020), and the other study showed no effects (Nijssens et al.,
2020). These differences might partly be due to the different measures used to assess child socioemotional development in the two studies (ASQ:SE-2 and BITSEA), but the differing findings also suggest that more studies are needed in this area.
Discussion
We found that the PRFQ-I was a valid measure of PRF in first-time parents and that PRF, measured using PRFQ-I, had the same meaning across mothers and fathers. When comparing PRF dimensions in mothers and fathers, we found that mothers reported higher levels of certainty about mental states and interest and curiosity than fathers and that fathers reported higher levels of pre-mentalizing than mothers. Further, we found that pre-mentalizing and certainty about mental states measured at 4 months predicted infant socioemotional development at 11 months. Higher levels of pre-mentalizing predicted lower infant socioemotional adjustment, while higher levels of certainty about mental states predicted higher infant socioemotional adjustment. These results were seen in both mothers and fathers.
The first study aim was to test the factor structure and cross-gender measurement invariance of the PRFQ-I. We did this by examining the factor structure of PRFQ-I in a large community sample of first-time mothers and fathers of 4-month-old infants using confirmatory factor analyses. In line with Wendelboe et al. (
2021), our results supported overall the PRFQ-I as a valid measurement instrument to assess the three PRF dimensions in mothers and fathers during the first year of parenthood.
With only three items in the PM subscale, Cronbach’s alpha values for the subscale were low, and two of three items in the subscale showed low, yet significant, factor loadings, potentially reflecting low internal consistency. These findings are very similar to the previous study on the PRFQ-I (Wendelboe et al.,
2021) and may be rooted in a mixture of methodological and theoretical explanations. A statistical explanation might be the low number of items in the PM subscale, since alpha values depend highly on the number of items in a scale (Cortina,
1993; Wendelboe et al.,
2021). Similarly, the low factor loadings for two items in the PM subscale might be a result of low reliability of the three items (as indicated by the low alpha) and hence a heterogeneous subscale, where one item loads strongly on the latent variables while the other two have only weak loadings on the latent construct.
On a theoretical level, Wendelboe et al. (
2021) suggested that a limited capacity for parental mentalization, captured by the PM dimension, might reflect three different modes of pre-mentalizing: the psychic equivalence mode, the teleological mode and the pretend mode (Luyten et al.,
2020). The psychic equivalence mode represents a pre-mentalizing mode associated with disavowal of trying to mentalize others. As described previously, item 16 (“Often, my child’s behavior is too confusing to bother figuring out”) reflects this avoidance of mentalization and might tap into the psychic equivalence mode. The teleological mode reflects mentalization based on an extreme exterior focus (Luyten et al.,
2020). As such, item 1 (“The only time I’m certain my child loves me is when s/he is smiling at me”) reflects this mode because a high score indicates a pre-mentalizing mode based primarily, and more or less exclusively, on the actual, observable behavior. Last, the pretend mode represents a pre-mentalizing mode that is somewhat detached from reality (Luyten et al.,
2020), with item 4 (“My child cries around strangers to embarrass me”) reflecting this mode. Although these three pre-mentalizing modes generally reflect a limited capacity for parental mentalization, they capture different aspects of pre-mentalizing, which might partly explain the low internal consistency on the PM subscale.
The CFA also revealed that item 11 on the CMS subscale, and items 15 and 18 in the IC subscale, had relatively low factor loadings. Item 15 states: “I try to understand the reasons why my child misbehaves.” Parents of infants are probably less likely to use the word “misbehaving” to describe unacceptable or undesirable behaviour than parents of toddlers or older children. Item 11 (“I can sometimes misunderstand the reactions of my child”) and item 18 (“I believe there is no point in trying to guess what my child feels”), being reverse coded, represent statements that parents of infants might be less likely to endorse than parents of older children. Hence, the low factor loadings on these items might be specific to parents of infants at 4 months.
Our results also indicated measurement invariance across parental gender at the configural, metric, and scalar level. Thus, our results imply that, in the present sample, PRF as a construct and the underlying items are equal across parental gender, for which reason differences in PRF dimensions as latent constructs for mothers and fathers can be validly interpreted. We did not find residual invariance, meaning that the residual variances were not equal across groups. Yet this level of invariance is the most restrictive because it reflects that the measurement error variances are equivalent across the examined groups (Putnick & Bornstein,
2016). However, since we obtained configural, metric and scalar invariance, we were able to validly compare the means of parental PRF between mothers and fathers in the current sample.
The second aim was to examine and compare mothers and fathers on the dimensions of PRF. Our results showed significant differences between mothers and fathers, with mothers reporting significantly higher levels of interest and curiosity and certainty about mental states than fathers, and fathers reporting significantly higher levels of pre-mentalizing than mothers.
These results are partly in line with previous research showing significant differences on the dimensions of interest and curiosity and pre-mentalizing (Cooke et al.,
2017; Gordo et al.,
2020; Luyten Mayes et al.,
2017; Pazzagli et al.,
2018; Salo et al.,
2021). The findings could be explained by cultural and social norms resulting in mothers being the primary caregiver more often than fathers, and mothers taking more parental leave than fathers (Gordo et al.,
2020; Salo et al.,
2021). This was also the case in the present sample, in which the mothers had on average 9.9 months of maternal leave and the fathers had on average 2.35 months of paternal leave during the first 11 months of the child’s life. Since mothers typically spend more time with their child in the first year of parenthood, this could potentially increase the level of interest and curiosity and decrease the level of pre-mentalizing because the higher amount of time alone with their child might give the mothers a greater opportunity for developing their mentalizing ability (Cooke et al.,
2017). In line with this explanation, Cooke et al. (
2017) found that the fathers in their study who spent more time with their children on weekends scored higher on interest and curiosity and lower on pre-mentalizing than the fathers who spent less time with their children on weekends.
Unlike previous studies, we also found significant differences on the dimension of certainty about mental states, but the same explanation could be applied here as well. Mothers might be more certain of their infants’ mental states because they spend more time with their child in the first 11 months after birth. However, although this finding was significant, the effect size for this difference was negligible compared with the effect sizes for the differences on the dimensions of interest and curiosity and pre-mentalizing.
Some studies found the differences on the dimensions of interest and curiosity and pre-mentalizing to persist in parents of older children, such as in parents of 12-month-old (Luyten et al.,
2017) and school-aged children (Pazzagli et al.,
2018). Thus, it might be possible that the parental roles of mothers and fathers in early parenthood continue throughout parenthood, thereby affecting the dimensions of parental mentalization. However, Salo et al. (
2021) did not find that these differences persisted 12 months postpartum, a finding that calls for further examination of the continuity or discontinuity of these gender differences during parenthood.
Our third aim was to examine the association between PRF at 4 months and infant socioemotional development at 11 months. We hypothesized that higher levels of pre-mentalizing at 4 months were related to infant socioemotional development at 11 months. Confirming the hypotheses, and in line with previous research (Gordo et al.,
2020; Nijssens et al.,
2020), we found that higher levels of pre-mentalizing predicted diminished infant socioemotional adjustment. This was the case for both mothers and fathers. These findings show that high levels of pre-mentalizing negatively affect later infant socioemotional development, perhaps because parents with high levels of pre-mentalizing are at risk of making malevolent or distorted attributions regarding their child’s mental states, which, in turn, might lead to reduced sensitivity in parental behavior affecting infant socioemotional development (Luyten et al.,
2017; Gordo et al.,
2020; Nijssens et al.,
2020).
With regard to the two remaining dimensions of the PRFQ-I, certainty about mental states and interest and curiosity, we did not expect these to have an effect on infant socioemotional development, and, in line with previous research (Gordo et al.,
2020; Nijssens et al.,
2020), interest and curiosity did not significantly predict infant socioemotional development in mothers or fathers. However, our results showed that higher scores on the CMS subscale significantly predicted higher levels of infant socioemotional adjustment in both mothers and fathers. The positive effect of certainty about mental states on infant socioemotional development was not in line with the study by Nijssens et al. (
2020). Notably, this study differed from the current study in a number of ways: the smaller sample size (
n = 53), the different age of the sample (19–26 months) and the different measure of infant socioemotional development (BITSEA), which might all have contributed to the studies’ contrasting results. The study by Gordo et al. (
2020) used the same measure of infant socioemotional development as the present study; however, since they tested whether the effect of PRF on infant socioemotional development was mediated by parental competence, their results cannot be directly compared with those of the present study. In addition, the present study differs from the previous studies by examining the relation between PRF and infant socioemotional development longitudinally, while the studies by Nijssens et al. (
2020) and Gordo et al. (
2020) measured PRF and infant socioemotional development at one time point. Thus, these differences between the studies may have affected the contrasting results regarding the relation between certainty of mental states and infant socioemotional development. Nonetheless, the results from this study suggest a possible explanation for the effect of certainty about mental states on infant socioemotional development – namely, that a higher degree of certainty about mental states might help the parent to feel more competent in interpreting the infant’s behavior, thereby allowing the parent to react more sensitively to the infant’s socioemotional communication and underlying needs, and, by doing so, strengthen the infant’s socioemotional development. Since only one previous study has tested parental competence as a mediator between PRF and infant socioemotional development, more mediational studies are needed to better understand the mechanisms underlying the association between PRF and infant socioemotional development.
On the other hand, research has shown that high scores on the CMS subscale might not be desirable. The CMS scale ranges from a parental tendency to feel complete lack of certainty to a tendency to be overly certain of the child’s mental states (Luyten et al.,
2017). Hence, midrange scores might reflect the most optimal level of certainty about mental states, as we expect mentalizing parents to be able to know and interpret infant mental states to some degree, and at the same time to be able to recognize the opacity of mental states. In line with this, previous findings suggest that very high levels of certainty about mental states reflect hypermentalizing, which is a non-mentalizing stance in which the parent is overly certain of their child’s mental states (Luyten et al.,
2017). Thus, too-high levels of this dimension might indicate intrusive mentalizing or even non-mentalizing, and not genuine mentalizing. In line with this interpretation, a midrange model for emotional non-verbal communication as being optimal has been confirmed in observational studies of mother-infant interaction by for example Tronick, Beebe and their colleagues. Tronick and Beeghly (
2011) found that optimal dyadic exchange of emotion in mother-infant communication is characterized by ongoing disruptions and repairs, by messiness and not by perfect harmony. Likewise, Beebe and colleagues have confirmed that an optimum midrange model of mother-infant is optimal for child socioemotional development and secure attachment as opposed to interactions characterized by levels of co-ordination that are either too low or too high (Beebe et al.,
2016). Low co-ordinated dyads are characterized by a form of withdrawal, disengagement or inhibition of relatedness, whereas dyads characterized by high coordination may be seen as being over-monitoring, indicating wariness or vigilance (Beebe et al.,
2010). Future studies should determine whether high scores on the CMS subscale are associated with hypermentalizing as suggested by Luyten et al. (
2017) or with more optimal development, as suggested by the results in the present study, and ideally also examine and define specific cut-offs for optimal scores on the other subscales of the PRFQ.
Although the present study has several strengths, including the longitudinal design and the large sample size, it also has limitations. First, although the sample was large, community based and included fathers, its representativeness might be questioned. The participating parents differed from the general Danish population in terms of educational level and ethnicity, and the sample did not include partners of other genders. Therefore, the generalizability of the results should be interpreted accordingly. Second, only parental self-report measures were applied in the present study, which raised the risk of bias such as measurement bias and social desirability bias. As the parents were the only informants in the study, their PRF might have affected how they evaluated their infants’ socioemotional development. Future research should include multiple methods and informants to minimize bias.