Adolescence is an important period for developing prosocial behaviors or voluntary behaviors to benefit others (Van der Graaff et al.,
2018). Prosocial behaviors play an important positive role in adolescents’ interpersonal relationships (Carlo,
2014). Close relationships have the most pronounced influence on adolescents’ social development, and close relationships with parents, siblings and friends have been found to contribute to adolescents’ prosocial behavior (Eisenberg et al.,
2015). Parents, siblings and friends can promote adolescents’ prosocial behavior in two ways: by modeling prosocial behavior and by providing a warm and supportive relational context (Eisenberg et al.,
2015). Social learning theory posits that adolescents learn prosocial behaviors by observing and mimicking others’ behaviors, particularly in close relationships (Hoffman,
2008). In addition, high-quality and supportive relationships with family members and friends may increase the internalization of prosocial standards and behaviors (Hastings et al.,
2007). When adolescents have secure bonds with family members and friends and feel supported and accepted by others, they have the resources to attend to others’ needs and display prosocial behaviors (Shaver et al.,
2019). Conversely, engaging in prosocial behavior might also facilitate high-quality relationships (e.g., Padilla-Walker et al.,
2015a). The main aim of this study was to understand the longitudinal associations of autonomy support, emotional support, and prosocial behavior of fathers, mothers, siblings, and friends to adolescents’ prosocial behavior. We examined these processes both at the between-dyad level and at the within-dyad level.
The Role of Prosocial Behavior From Family and Friends in Adolescents’ Prosocial Behavior
From a social learning perspective, it is assumed that when relational partners model or talk about prosocial behaviors, adolescents are more likely to display these behaviors (Hoffman,
2008). Relationships with parents, siblings, and friends are important to consider in this regard. Parents are important role models for their children. They are considered as the primary socializers of children’s prosocial behavior, as they lay the foundations for their psychosocial functioning within the norms and standards of society (Hastings et al.,
2007). In general, relationships with siblings and friends are to a much larger extent based on reciprocity and differ from relationships with parents (Branje et al.,
2002). Therefore, these relationships offer a unique context to model and observe each other’s prosocial behaviors. Sibling relationships are involuntary and can be high in support and conflict but they generally last no matter what. In addition, adolescents in general spend more time with their siblings than with their parents (Updegraff et al.,
2011), which also underlines the strong impact they can have on each other’s prosocial behaviors (McHale et al.,
2012). Sibling relationships thus might serve as context to try out different behaviors without risking ending the relationship (Buist et al.,
2013). In contrast, friendships are voluntary relationships and can dissolve at any time (Furman & Rose,
2015), therefore adolescents are more motivated to show prosocial behavior in high-quality friendships to maintain these relationships. Thus, interactions with both siblings and friends are considered important training grounds for prosocial behaviors.
Previous research indeed showed some support for positive associations between prosocial behavior from parents, siblings and friends with adolescents’ prosocial behavior (Carlo,
2014; Eisenberg & Valiente,
2002). A cross-sectional study showed that when parents discuss and engage adolescents in prosocial activities, their adolescent children exhibit more prosocial behaviors (Carlo et al.,
2007). Relatedly, parents who adhered to higher levels of implicit rules (unwritten rules and norms within the family such as “make decisions together as a family,” p. 72, Crane et al.,
2020) on prosociality in family processes had adolescents who showed more prosocial communication with both parents (Crane et al.,
2020). Regarding siblings, there is empirical evidence for positive associations between siblings’ prosocial behavior during childhood. A short-term longitudinal study with 4 and 9 year old children showed positive within-time associations and positive cross-lagged effects between siblings’ prosocial behavior (Pike & Oliver,
2017). Results of this study thus suggest that there are positive associations between siblings’ prosocial behavior in childhood. As for friends, longitudinal studies that were conducted in classrooms showed that adolescents with peers who engage in prosocial behavior are more likely to show prosocial behavior themselves (e.g., Laninga-Wijnen et al.,
2020).
In sum, the empirical evidence for modeling effects is growing and typically shows positive associations between prosocial behavior from parents, siblings, and friends with adolescents’ or children’s prosocial behavior. However, most studies employ a short-term longitudinal design and focus on one specific socialization agent. Furthermore, most research is conducted in childhood, instead of investigating modeling effects from family members and friends across adolescence. Also, as it is assumed that processes that foster prosocial behaviors occur within a person or within dyads, it is crucial to investigate these processes while separating within-dyad effects from between-dyad effects.
The Role of Support in Adolescents’ Prosocial Behavior
Attachment theorist suggests associations between relationship quality and children’s prosocial behaviors (Wong et al.,
2021). When adolescents have a sense of secure bonds with family members and friends and feel supported and accepted by them (Allen,
2008; Pascuzzo et al.,
2013), they have the resources to attend to others’ needs and display prosocial behaviors (Shaver et al.,
2019). Further, according to Self Determination Theory scholars, social behaviors are best internalized when the basic needs for autonomy and relatedness are met in close relationships (Deci & Ryan,
2000). These needs can be met through autonomy support and emotional support. Autonomy support is reflected by tolerating, accepting and respecting adolescents’ opinions, feelings and ideas (Shulman et al.,
1997), and emotional support is characterized by showing warmth, acceptance, and empathy (Miklikowska et al.,
2011). In contexts where adolescents feel supported and respected, this might promote positive psychological functioning, such as prosocial behaviors (Shaver et al.,
2019). Moreover, high levels of consistent social support offer the opportunity to gain strong moral and social bond wherein adolescents show prosocial behaviors (Colvin et al.,
2002).
The evidence concerning the links between parental autonomy and adolescents’ prosocial behavior mostly stems from cross-sectional studies, and only to a limited extent from longitudinal studies. Autonomy support and emotional support are central constructs that characterize parenting, which is in line with Baumrind’s theory (
1991) who identifies the parenting dimensions of demandingness and responsiveness. Authoritative parents are both responsive and demanding, which means that they are warm and responsive to adolescents’ needs, offer clear rules, and expectations while encouraging autonomy. A two-year longitudinal study showed bidirectional relations between prosocial behavior and authoritative parenting during adolescence, with the most consistent evidence for the role of adolescents’ behavior on subsequent parenting (Padilla-Walker et al.,
2012). This may indicate that parents, in general, are more supportive and autonomy granting toward adolescents who show prosocial behavior. Relatedly, a meta-analysis showed that parental autonomy support is one of the key parenting behaviors that is positively related to adolescents’ prosocial behaviors with stronger effect sizes for cross-sectional studies than for longitudinal studies (Wong et al.,
2021). Furthermore, two cross-sectional studies showed that parental autonomy support was positively associated with adolescents’ prosocial behavior (Lan et al.,
2019; Wong et al.,
2022). As cross-sectional studies cannot address the direction of effects, the current study investigates these links longitudinally across adolescence to disentangle whether parental autonomy support predicts adolescents’ prosocial behavior or vice versa.
Regarding emotional support, previous research revealed positive concurrent associations of emotional support from parents with adolescents’ prosocial behavior (e.g., Laible,
2007). Longitudinal findings, however, are mixed. One study, in adolescents aged 10–14 years, showed that maternal connectedness (i.e., emotional support) positively predicted adolescents’ prosocial behavior, while paternal connectedness does not predict adolescents’ prosocial behavior one year later (Padilla-Walker & Christensen,
2011). One study found for adolescents between 9 to 14 years old that maternal warmth was positively related to adolescents’ prosocial behavior one year later across three successive waves (Carlo et al.,
2010). In addition, in adolescents with a mean age of 12 years both maternal warmth and paternal warmth were related to adolescents’ prosocial behavior one year later (Padilla-Walker et al.,
2016). However, another longitudinal study showed that a combined score of paternal and maternal warmth was not predictive of adolescents’ prosocial behavior between age 13 and 18 years (Lee et al.,
2017). The discrepancies in findings of previous longitudinal studies might be because these studies examined different periods of adolescence and did not all investigate emotional support from mothers and fathers separately. Therefore, the current study examined the roles of mothers’ and fathers’ emotional support in adolescents’ prosocial behavior systematically across adolescence.
Regarding the different roles of mothers and fathers in the socialization of prosocial behavior, previous research in childhood revealed that both parents contributed to prosocial development, but longitudinal associations of parental support to children’s prosocial behavior were stronger for mothers than for fathers (Hastings et al.,
2015). This might be due to mothers being more involved in childrearing activities than fathers and therefore having more opportunities to promote their children’s prosocial behavior (Hastings et al.,
2015). However, Self Determination Theory posits that parental influence is equal across parents, independent of parent or child gender (Deci & Ryan,
2000), and in line with this a meta-analysis, mainly based on cross-sectional studies, found that associations of mothers’ and fathers’ parenting with adolescents’ prosocial behavior were as strong (Wong et al.,
2021). Moreover, the potentially different roles of fathers and mothers in adolescents’ prosocial behavior have not often been studied longitudinally, as most research used combined scores of support from both parents or only included scores from mothers. Therefore, in the current study, we explored the unique contributions of support from both mothers and fathers to adolescents’ prosocial behavior.
Evidence on the role of support from siblings and friends in adolescents’ prosocial behavior is also scarce and inconsistent. The role of autonomy support from siblings in adolescents’ prosocial behavior has not been studied. Regarding autonomy support from friends, it was found that autonomy support from classmates was positively related to adolescents’ prosocial behavior (Ma et al.,
2022). Moreover, longitudinal research revealed that higher levels of control in friendships were associated with lower adolescents’ prosocial behavior (e.g., Padilla-Walker et al.,
2015b). For emotional support, affection from siblings was positively associated with adolescents’ prosocial behavior and positively predicted later adolescent prosocial behavior (Harper et al.,
2016). Results for emotional support in friendships are inconclusive; one study showed that affective bonds with friends were not significantly related to adolescents’ prosocial behavior (Carlo et al.,
2012), another study showed that strong affective bonds between friends were longitudinally associated with higher levels of adolescents’ prosocial behaviors, but only indirectly via adolescents’ sympathy (e.g., Padilla-Walker et al.,
2015b). Thus, evidence for positive associations of prosocial behavior with autonomy support from siblings and friends is scarce. Moreover, emotional support from siblings appeared to be positively related to prosocial behavior (Harper et al.,
2016), but for friends, these associations are inconsistent.
The Role of Adolescents’ Prosocial Behavior in Interpersonal Relationships
Different theoretical models stress that the relationships between individuals are transactional and reciprocal (e.g., Bell,
1977). Comparable mechanisms might operate in prosocial behavior. Research has for example shown that parents and children reinforce each other’s negative behavior, setting up a cycle of coercion where children elicit particular types of responses from their parents and where parents’ behavior induces children to behave in particular ways (Patterson,
2002). Similarly, when adolescents show prosocial behavior, parents, siblings, and friends may positively reinforce this by providing autonomy support, emotional support and prosocial behavior. This may set up a cycle of prosocial behavior; adolescents elicit positive responses from parents, siblings and friends and this reinforces adolescents’ prosocial behavior (Dishion et al.,
1992). This is particularly evident for siblings (e.g., Defoe et al.,
2013) and friends (e.g., Piehler & Dishion,
2007), as adolescents have similar relational status roles in these relationships, but adolescents can also affect their parents’ behavior (e.g., Bell,
1977). Hence, increases in adolescents’ prosocial behavior may also facilitate prosocial behaviors from parents, siblings and friends. Similarly, adolescents’ prosocial behavior is also expected to be predictive of autonomy support and emotional support provided by parents, siblings, and friends. Family and friends of adolescents who display increases in prosocial behaviors may respond to these actions by being more autonomy and emotionally supportive. It is likely easier to be supportive when adolescents often engage in positive and responsible behaviors.
Empirical researchers have, indeed, found that adolescents who reported more prosocial behaviors subsequently perceived higher levels of maternal emotional support (Carlo et al.,
2010) and parental acceptance (Bornstein et al.,
2018) than adolescents who reported less prosocial behavior. Likewise, higher levels of adolescents’ prosocial behavior towards friends predicted an increase in friendship quality (Meuwese et al.,
2017). Moreover, prosocial behaviors toward friends positively predicted how connected adolescents felt with their friends (Padilla-Walker et al.,
2015a). Although this research suggests that engaging in prosocial behavior may facilitate supportive relationships, the results were from studies that did not separate between-dyad level associations from within-dyad level associations. By examining these processes both at the between-dyad level and at the within-dyad level, we not only addressed if adolescents whose relational partners reported more autonomy and emotional support also reported more prosocial behavior, but also whether fluctuations in autonomy and emotional support within the dyads predicted fluctuations in adolescents’ prosocial behavior.
Gender Differences
Gender intensification theory posits that there is increased socialization pressure to conform to gender roles during adolescence (Hill & Lynch,
1983). Girls are sensitive to supportive behaviors from others and are expected to show more nurturing and caring behaviors (Hastings et al.,
2007). Boys are more independent and adhere to more masculine types of prosocial behavior (Xiao et al.,
2019). Therefore, girls might be more sensitive to prosocial behaviors and support from others and therefore the associations between support and prosocial behavior might be stronger for girls than for boys in adolescence.
Gender differences in mean levels of prosocial behavior, with girls scoring higher than boys, are well-established in the literature (e.g., Van der Graaff et al.,
2018). In addition, consistent with gender intensification theory, these gender differences in prosocial behaviors are stronger in adolescence than in childhood (Eisenberg & Fabes,
1998). However, there is less evidence for gender differences in the links of parents’, siblings’ and friends’ prosocial behavior or support to adolescents’ prosocial behavior. Meta-analyses found no gender differences in the links between parenting (i.e., autonomy support and emotional support) and prosocial behaviors (Wong et al.,
2021) and between relationship quality with family and peers and empathy (which is related to prosocial behavior) (Boele et al.,
2019).