Introduction
All humans have a fundamental need to belong, that is, feeling relatedness to other people (cf. [
1,
2]). Anything that threatens meeting this need can be seen as a threat to equality and existence. Unfortunately, the need to belong is not fulfilled for as much as 10% to 20% of adolescents who continuously feel lonely and socially isolated [
3,
4]. Loneliness and isolation are particularly painful experiences during adolescence, when individuals have an intensified need to be accepted in their peer group [
5,
6]. In this study we examine two interlinking yet unique forms of social outsiderhood, that is, being lonely and being ostracized.
Loneliness—defined as an unpleasant emotional response arising from the subjective feeling of discrepancy between actual and desired social connections—and
ostracism—defined as being excluded and/or ignored by other individuals or groups—can have long-term detrimental effects on psychosocial well-being and health while also endangering safety in society [
7,
8]. Although loneliness and ostracism are highly intertwined [
9], the reasons for loneliness and ostracism may be different, i.e. ostracism is related to others’ action as such that others are ignoring or rejecting you, while loneliness refers to a subjective feeling that your own social needs for belongingness are not met. Loneliness and ostracism have been studied mostly separately, and among adults. Hence, little is known about their combined profiles and related consequences for mental well-being, delinquency and school engagement during adolescence. Knowledge of different antecedents underlying these profiles is also limited. Consequently, this longitudinal study examined the profiles of loneliness and ostracism during adolescence and their consequences, antecedents, and protective factors.
Profiles of Loneliness and Ostracism During Adolescence
Loneliness arises from the mismatch between the desired and actual social connections [
4,
7,
10,
11]. This discrepancy entails a distressing feeling to perceived social isolation and longing for human contact [
4,
11]. Loneliness differs from being alone and is not equal to objective social isolation. People can live relatively solitary lives and not feel lonely, and on the contrary, they can have a busy social life and wide social networks and still feel lonely (see also [
7,
12]). Loneliness is also a multidimensional phenomenon consisting of the dimensions of social and emotional loneliness [
13], see also [
14‐
17].
Social loneliness refers to longing for an absent broader social network, whereas
emotional loneliness refers to longing for an absent intimate and close attachment with a friend or friends [
13]. Previous research has also shown that experiences of social and emotional loneliness do not necessarily overlap, for instance, an adolescent may have satisfying broader peer networks but still lack close friends [
16,
18‐
20].
Ostracism, in turn, is defined as being ignored and/or excluded by individuals or groups [
8,
21].
Explicit exclusion or rejection occurs when the source is explicitly denying the target’s social request.
Ignoring, in turn, is a more subtle form of exclusion that undermines targets’ sense that other people acknowledge their existence [
21,
22]. Being excluded or ignored signals a threat to individuals [
8]. Within even a brief episode of ostracism, individuals tend to report distress, anger, sadness, and lower levels of belonging, self-confidence, control, and meaningful existence [
23,
24]. In the present study, the explicit exclusion aspect of ostracism was operationalized as peer-rated rejection by the peer group and ignoring the aspect of ostracism was operationalized as peer-rated neglect by the peer group (i.e., low social impact or visibility in the peer group, for a review of related sociometric literature, see also [
25]). However, instead of predetermined cutoffs and quantitative indicators with nonoverlapping distributions, our focus was on naturally occurring subgroups [
26] of peer exclusion and ignoring by the peer group.
An important aspect of adolescent loneliness and ostracism is the continuity vs. discontinuity of these experiences across time. Although most adolescents experience relatively low levels of social isolation over time, some adolescents experience prolonged loneliness [
4,
27‐
29]. Regarding ostracism, active exclusion or rejection by the peer group has also been found to be a rather stable phenomenon during adolescence [
30‐
32]. However, as far as we know no previous studies have attempted to simultaneously investigate the extent of overlap and profiles of different aspects of loneliness (i.e., social and emotional) and ostracism (i.e., excluding and ignoring). Further understanding of different combinations of loneliness and ostracism and related consequences, antecedents, and protective factors could be used to guide designing interventions to alleviate these experiences [
16].
Psychological Consequences of Prolonged Loneliness and Ostracism
Although loneliness in itself is a negative experience, it serves some adaptive functions according to the evolutionary theory of loneliness [
33]. From the evolutionary perspective, it has been proposed that loneliness prepares individuals to cope with a potentially unsafe environment without the protection of others. As a result, loneliness is often accompanied by an increased vigilance for social threats [
34]. At the same time, it has been suggested that loneliness also mobilise the so-called re-affiliation motive, which helps individuals to reconnect with significant others and, therefore, reduce their feelings of loneliness. However, not all lonely individuals are able to resolve their feelings of loneliness [
27]. Such prolonged loneliness can lead to cognitive overload, deteriorating social functioning, physical and mental health problems, and even suicidality [
3,
27,
35]. Similarly, as an insidious form of social violence, ostracism also activates social pain reactions in the brain, and if prolonged, it has adverse well-being consequences, including increased risk for psychiatric disorders, impaired immune functioning and even the risk for violent radicalization [
8,
36,
37].
Many prospective studies have shown that stable and high levels of loneliness during adolescence is a risk factor for poor subsequent mental health including elevated levels of internalizing problems, such as depressive symptoms, anxiety and psychosomatic symptoms [
4,
29,
38‐
40]. Prolonged loneliness and ostracism have also been proposed as risk factors for subsequent externalizing problems, such as conduct problems, violent acts, and criminality [
3,
28,
41]. Moreover, some studies have shown that loneliness can have detrimental consequences in other domains in life such as education and work. For example, Benner [
42] showed that adolescents in the increasing and chronically high loneliness trajectories tend to make less academic progress [
42], be at higher risk for school dropout [
3] and lower subsequent income and even labor market exclusion [
17]. However, little is known about the consequences of different profiles of loneliness and ostracism on adolescent psychosocial well-being and educational outcomes. Thus, in the present longitudinal study we aim to shed further light on these profiles and related consequences.
Sociodemographic, Individual and Contextual Antecedents of Loneliness and Ostracism
In order to more effectively prevent detrimental consequences of loneliness and ostracism, it is also pivotal to increase understanding of various sociodemographic, individual and contextual risk and protective factors underlying these distinct forms of social outsiderhood (see also [
16]). Previous research has linked
sociodemographic factors, such as socioeconomic status and sex to loneliness. Depending on their socioeconomic status, parents may have differential financial resources and social capital to support their children’s development [
43]. The level of education is highly hereditary [
44,
45] and it affects not only the quality of the home learning environment, parental action, and investment in resources, but also children’s abilities and skills [
46,
47]. Accordingly, results from the few previous studies show that low socioeconomic status is related to higher levels of loneliness among adolescents [
17,
28,
48,
49]. The results may indicate that parents with high socioeconomic status may more actively facilitate their children’s participation in different activities and hobbies, which may increase their inclusion in a broader peer network. Previous studies, in turn, have reported mixed results on sex differences in regards to overall loneliness [
50,
51]. However, studies using two-dimensional measures of loneliness have consistently found that adolescent boys report higher levels of emotional loneliness than girls do and that adolescent girls experience more social loneliness than boys do [
16,
20,
52].
Temperament, which refers to constitutionally rooted individual differences in reactivity as well as to the self-regulation processes modulating this reactivity [
53‐
55], may also play an important role in the development of loneliness and ostracism. Temperament may influence social interactions through the individual’s responses to new social encounters, their reactivity and self-regulation during social situations, and recovery in response to a social threat [
54,
56]. For example, high levels of negative emotionality, withdrawn behavior, and difficulties to regulate own emotions and behaviors may pose risks to social relationships as they are linked to behavioral deficiencies [
57], that may undermine the opportunities to initiate and maintain positive social relationships. In previous research, neuroticism, introversion, and low agreeableness have all been linked to relationship difficulties and poor social integration [
3,
58,
59]. However, it is still an open question whether some temperament dimensions are particularly relevant for some specific combinations of adolescent loneliness or ostracism.
Based on the resilience framework [
60], it is also be essential to pay attention to
adaptive individual competences (here prosocial skills, self-esteem; see also [
61]) and
contextual protective factors (here quality of relationships with parents and teachers; see also [
62]) that might contribute to avoiding adverse trajectories of loneliness and ostracism during adolescence. Social skills are important in tackling relational challenges, keeping up social relationships, participating in group activities, and being independent and active in social interactions [
3,
61,
63,
64]. Self-esteem, in turn, appears as feeling socially competent, valuable and resilient [
61,
65,
66]. A recent study by Sakiz et al. [
61] showed that both high self-esteem and high social skills protect adolescents against loneliness and ostracism. There are also some previous findings to suggest that high parental affection, closeness, and care could protect against loneliness [
27]. Despite increased orientation towards peers during adolescence, parents remain as major providers of social support (see also [
62,
67]). However, less is known about teachers’ possible protective role and whether parental and teacher support are particularly relevant for some specific aspects of adolescent loneliness or ostracism.
Research Questions and Hypotheses
This longitudinal study aimed to provide increased understanding on profiles of adolescent loneliness and ostracism and related antecedents, consequences, and protective factors. More specifically, the following research questions were asked:
(1) What kinds of profiles of loneliness (i.e., social and emotional) and ostracism (i.e., exclusion and ignoring) can be identified during adolescence?
(2) How are identified profiles of loneliness and ostracism related to adolescents’ subsequent internalizing and externalizing problems and engagement with upper secondary studies?
(3) How are (a) sociodemographic and ability-related (i.e., sex, fluid intelligence, level of parental education) and personality-related (i.e., temperament) antecedents, individual adaptive competencies (i.e., social skills, self-esteem) and contextual protective factors (i.e., quality of parent and teacher relationships) related to membership in these profiles?
Method
Participants
Our sample comprises 1078 adolescents (46% boys, M = 12.31 years at the outset, SD = 0.37) who were drawn from a longitudinal study conducted in Finland from 2014 to 2018. The adolescents were recruited from one large town (about half of the age cohort) and one middle-sized town (whole age cohort) in Central Finland. Both towns included semi-rural areas with smaller schools. Target schools (n = 30) were selected according to their location and size, with the aim of achieving a sufficient sample size and enabling extensive data collections throughout the whole research project. The aim of the larger study was to follow-up students through the transition from primary school to upper secondary education, thus primary schools were selected from areas where all children transfer to particular secondary schools instead of dispersing to different locations. The selection and recruitment of the schools was done in cooperation with the local school authorities.
In all, 97% of the adolescents had Finnish as their heritage language, 1% were bilingual, and 2% of the adolescents spoke a language other than Finnish as their mother tongue. Seventy-five percent of the families were nuclear families, 13% were single-parent families, 12% were blended families, and 1% were other types of families.
A total of 4% of adolescents’ mothers (8% of fathers) were not educated beyond nine years of basic education, 31% of mothers (42% fathers) had completed upper secondary education, 38% of mothers (29% fathers) had a bachelor’s degree, and 27% of mothers (21% of fathers) had a master’s degree or higher. The sample was fairly representative; however, compared to same-age Finnish population, the parents were slightly more educated [
68] and single-parent households underrepresented and two-parent households overrepresented [
69].
Procedure
The data were collected in the paper and pencil format by two trained research assistants during normal school hours. Depending on the time point the data collection session at schools lasted from 45 to 90 min (with a 15-min break in the middle). Informed consent was obtained from all the participants of the study. Parental written consent and child assent were required for student participation. Teachers of the participating classrooms also gave their written consent for the data collection to be conducted during the lessons. The procedures of the study follow the principles of the Helsinki Declaration on research with human subjects and the larger longitudinal study was approved by the ethics committee of the local university. Six waves of data were collected: (a) fall of the sixth grade (T1), (b) fall of the seventh grade (T2, c) spring of the seventh grade (T3), (c), fall of ninth grade (T4), d) spring of ninth grade (T5), and e) fall of tenth grade (i.e., upper secondary education (T6). Loneliness and ostracism were measured at the first five time point (T1, T2, T3, T4, and T5), antecedent variables were measured at T1, and consequent variables were measured at T6. A total of 841 (78%) adolescents filled in the questionnaire at T1, 834 (77%) at T2, 825 (76%) at T3, 884 (82%) at T4, 885 (82%) at T5 and 776 (72%) at T6.
The Finnish Educational System
In Finland, nine years of compulsory basic education is divided into primary school (grades 1–6) and lower secondary school (grades 7–9). In primary and lower secondary school, all students follow the same curriculum and are taught at the same academic level. After completing nine years of basic education, adolescents can choose mainly from two upper secondary education options: an academic track or a vocational track [
70]. The academic track (i.e., upper secondary general education) provides general education, but it does not qualify students for any particular occupation. The vocational track (i.e., upper secondary vocational education) includes upper secondary qualifications and provides the basic skills required in the field.
Discussion
This longitudinal study examined the profiles of adolescents’ loneliness and ostracism and their consequences, antecedents and protective factors. Four distinct developmental profiles were identified, which were differentially associated with subsequent internalizing and externalizing problems and engagement with upper secondary education: (1) High emotional loneliness (25%), High and increasing social loneliness (15%), High peer exclusion and high social impact (9%), and No peer problems (51%). These developmental profiles also differed in regards to sociodemographic factors, temperament, and individual and contextual protective factors. The results provide new knowledge about different combinations of loneliness and ostracism among adolescents and related antecedents and outcomes. This knowledge can be used to develop procedures to identify subgroups of adolescents at-risk for chronically elevated levels of loneliness and ostracism as well as to design targeted interventions to reduce adolescents’ social outsiderhood.
Profiles of Loneliness and Ostracism
The results regarding the identified profiles of adolescent loneliness and ostracism were partly in line with our Hypothesis
1. First, as expected (see also [
27‐
29,
99]) the largest subgroup (51%), labelled as
No peer problems, consisted of adolescents experiencing neither loneliness nor ostracism. The prevalence of this subgroup resembles previous studies among adolescents in which the prevalence of the
No peer problems group has varied above and below 50% [
27‐
29,
99,
100].
As expected, based on the theory of multidimensionality of loneliness [
13], see also [
14‐
17], two distinct subgroups of adolescents suffering from stable high loneliness were also found:
High emotional loneliness (25%) and
High and increasing social loneliness (15%). These subgroups of adolescents, consisting altogether of 40% the sample, internally suffered from either emotional or social loneliness that were not combined with more active peer exclusion or peer rejection. These findings support some previous findings suggesting that experiences of social and emotional loneliness do not always overlap [
12,
16,
18]. The results also highlight a need to assess both aspects of loneliness in order to reveal actual frequency of loneliness experiences among adolescents.
In contrast to our expectations, two subgroups of actively excluded and neglected adolescents based on different types of ostracism, were not found. Instead, we found one mixed ostracism subgroup of adolescents labelled as
High peer exclusion and high social impact (9%). This highly stable and distinguishable subgroup of adolescents was characterized by simultaneously high peer rejection and high visibility in the peer group [
101,
102]. One possible explanation for the found mixed ostracism profile is that in our study ostracism was measured with peer ratings. Previous research on ostracism among adolescents is scarce and has mainly been conducted either in laboratory settings [
103] or with self-report questionnaires [
61]. It is possible that ostracism is partly differentially perceived from the perspective of the target of ostracism and from the perspective of the peer group. Another possible explanation for the lacking neglected subgroup is statistical as exclusion and social impact scores were moderately highly correlated (especially within the same measurement points, see Table
1). Separate profiles for exclusion and neglect would be more likely to emerge when the correlation between the two constructs is low.
Psychological Consequences of Profiles of Loneliness and Ostracism
The results further showed that the psychological consequences of the different profiles of loneliness and ostracism were partly differential. First, in line with our expectations (
H2a; see also [
29]), adolescents who had no peer problems were best adjusted in all the measured indicators. They had fewer internalizing and externalizing problems and fewer school absences in upper secondary education than did adolescents in the three other profiles, which were characterized by continuous loneliness and ostracism. They also less frequently reported school dropout intentions than adolescents in the other profiles did (
H2a).
Second, supporting our expectations (
H2b; see also [
3,
4,
29,
38]), adolescents in the
High and increasing social loneliness profile had a higher level of subsequent internalizing problems than did adolescents in any other profile. One possible explanation for these findings is that prolonged feelings of social loneliness (i.e., longing for an absent broader social network) leads to higher stress levels in everyday life, cognitive overload, and hinders social functioning which, in turn, has detrimental consequences on adolescents’ mental well-being [
3,
27,
35]. Moreover, adolescents in the
High emotional loneliness profile, characterized by longing for an absent intimate, close and emotional attachment with a friend or friends, were more likely to have police contact than were adolescents with no peer problems or who suffered primarily from social loneliness. These results support partially the link between chronic loneliness and subsequent delinquency (
H2b; see also [
3,
28]).
Third, in line with our expectations (
H2c; [
8]), our results showed that norm-breaking behavior and delinquency were typical consequences of stable high ostracism. School absences due to sickness and truancy were particularly typical for adolescents in the
High peer exclusion and high social impact profile. Adolescents in the
High peer exclusion and social impact profile were also more likely to have police contact than adolescents in the other profiles were. Our results support previous studies that have suggested chronic ostracism to be a risk factor for antisocial behavior, radicalization, and violent acts (e.g., [
8,
36,
37]). Conduct problems of adolescents, in turn, were not specific for any loneliness or ostracism subgroup, but their level was higher for all the loneliness and ostracism profiles compared to adolescents with no peer problems.
Limitations and Future Directions
Our study has several limitations. First, as part of a broader longitudinal study only widely used single-item direct measure for social loneliness was available (see also [
4,
71,
72]). This direct measure of loneliness, tapping mainly social loneliness (i.e., closest correlation with the UCLA item ‘I feel being left out of others’ in the Finnish national data), has been widely used in national and international surveys and has been shown to have good face, concurrent, and predictive validity [
40,
74,
75]. The gender differences in our single-item measure also supported previous research by showing that adolescent girls experience more social loneliness than boys do [
12,
16,
20,
52]. At the same time, we admit that previous research on associations of different direct and indirect single-item measures of loneliness with different broader scales of emotional and social loneliness is still inconclusive with some other studies also showing closer associations with emotional loneliness [
17]. Hence, there is an evident need for future studies that should replicate our results for developmental profiles of emotional and social loneliness with longer and more comprehensive multi-item measures, such as the Relational Provisions Loneliness Questionnaire (RPLQ [
19,
20]), that would allow in more depth measurement of different dimensions of loneliness. Similarly, there is a need for future studies about cultural interpretations of the word “loneliness” in order to shed further light on possible cultural differences in the interpretations of the loneliness items. Second, in our study ostracism was measured using peer ratings. It is possible that ostracism is partly differentially perceived from the perspective of the target of ostracism and from the perspective of the peer group. In future studies it would be useful to conduct multimethod studies to examine ostracism in more depth with different complementary measures. Also, future studies with more frequent measurement points and longer timespans during adolescence could potentially shed more light on possible nonlinear patterns and developmental profiles of adolescent loneliness and ostracism.
Third, Finland unfortunately does not have systematic official records of school absenteeism; these registries are still under construction. In our study, we measured school absences and police contact using widely used items in the National and International School Health survey. In the future studies, it would be worthwhile to complement self-reported information with information from official records. Third, the investigated associations with antecedents and consequences are correlational, which precludes making causal conclusions about the associations. Future studies are needed to examine the reciprocal dynamics and the direction of associations between loneliness and ostracism and related antecedents and consequences. Finally, our sample was a homogeneous and a resource-rich sample (as indicated by the high level of educational attainment among the mothers of the participants) consisting of mainly Finnish speaking adolescents. Future studies are needed to examine loneliness and ostracism in more diverse samples and with different immigrant groups.
Summary
From the scientific, clinical and public health points of view, it is important to identify predictors and outcomes of specific subgroups at risk, such as adolescents who suffer from chronically elevated levels of loneliness and ostracism. Loneliness and isolation are particularly painful experiences during adolescence, when individuals have a heightened need to be accepted in their peer group [
5,
6]. Hence, adolescence is a crucial period for reducing loneliness and preventing negative health outcomes and social exclusion [
113]. Our study revealed four distinct profiles of loneliness and ostracism, which were differentially associated with subsequent internalizing and externalizing problems and engagement in upper secondary education: (1)
High emotional loneliness (25%),
High and increasing social loneliness (15%),
High peer exclusion and high social impact (9%,) and
No peer problems (51%). Despite these two forms of social outsiderhood interlinked at separate time points, the developmental pathways seemed to form more nuanced profiles of these types of outsiderhood. For some adolescents, the problems were mostly related to being ostracized by others while the other adolescents had more subjective feeling of being socially or emotionally lonely. The found profiles also meaningfully differed in regards to sociodemographic factors, temperament, and individual and contextual protective factors. The new knowledge on the distinct subtypes of loneliness and ostracism, their consequences and related risk and protective factors can be used to help guide focused interventions to alleviate loneliness and ostracism (see also [
16,
114]).
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