Interview Themes
Understanding Adolescent Perspectives Providers highlighted their efforts to understand adolescents’ own perspectives, motivations, and perceived readiness for licensure and driving. Several described how autistic patients expressed a high degree of motivation to obtain their drivers’ license in part to obtain independence “so that they don’t feel like they’re a child forever and….they’re doing the same type of things that their peers are doing.” Providers perceived many adolescents viewed licensure as an important developmental milestone enabling them to become more independent, noting: “A very high level of motivation to be more independent is something that I see a lot. They really crave that independence, and they know driving would allow for that. And so they’re more motivated than some…typically developing teenagers.”
While motivation to become independent was widely described, providers discussed the importance of understanding adolescents’ specific motivation to obtain their license, which often pertained to quality-of-life concerns, such as continuing their education, facilitating employment, or maintaining social connections. One participant described “If it’s ‘I need to get to work …there are things I want to do in my life that I need to have …be able to drive to be able to access’ – whether that’s social relationships, education, work…that’s usually what…our conversation is tied around.” Equally as important for several providers was understanding the perspective of adolescents who felt unready or uncertain about driving. Providers described that for many adolescents, driving-related anxieties included concerns ranging from understanding behind-the-wheel social cues to managing potential crashes and interacting with police. Specifically related to the social elements of driving, one participant described: “It was a conversation around what are some of the reasons you’re uncomfortable, and a lot of them actually had to do with…’I don’t read social cues right, so what if I don’t read the ones on the road right, they might have really serious consequences.’”.
Readying Caregivers for Driving Many providers described interactions with and support provided to caregivers in preparation for their child pursuing licensure. Specifically, they recounted conversations focused on preparing caregivers to support their child’s increasing independence with one provider telling caregivers, “yes, your child may have a diagnosis…but they are…going to start to transition into adulthood, and they should have the same opportunities to do the things that other teens and other young adults have.”
This process of helping caregivers relinquish longstanding expectations and experiences of control in their relationships with their children was difficult for many providers to navigate. Participants described how caregivers seemed unprepared for their child’s growing independence, with driving being a particularly challenging transition topic. One provider compared this parental transition to a grieving process, sharing how one mother was:
having a really hard time letting him do anything that would move him towards autonomy and being an autonomous adult…Like a balance between keeping them safe and protected, and letting them have that freedom and feeling like they have a sense of self…control over what they choose to do. I think that’s a tough balance for this population’s parents to strike. And driving’s like the perfect issue in terms of that balance, because driving is something that could really put them in harm’s way. And they could mess up, and they could get in a terrible accident, but they also need the opportunity to be autonomous. And I think like working through that like grieving process, and trying to think of like a different way of parenting, that they didn’t expect to have to do.
While many participants focused on adolescents’ independence related to licensure and driving, they noted caregivers were undergoing an important transition themselves regarding their relationship with their child, while managing their own set of concerns about their child’s ability to safely drive.
Navigating Beliefs and Fostering Agreement Providers described guiding a range of families, from those who had not yet considered licensing and independent driving to those who had already made plans and identified supportive resources on their own. One provider noted that prior to their work with a family, “there wasn’t anyone ushering the family through [the decision to drive]. And it was looming, he was almost 16 years old and wanting to drive and no one had ever dealt with this.” Additionally, providers shared encounters in which they were forced to address mismatches between adolescents’ and their caregivers’ expectations for driving and independent transportation. One noted: “the family went ahead and decided that they were going to get him his permit, but now they’re facing a lot of difficulty as they try to get him to drive because he doesn’t actually feel comfortable driving while the family does.” Providers discussed how mismatched expectations led to violence, disagreements, emotional outbursts, and disappointment, making the provider’s role of offering guidance and support difficult at times.
When providers believed that licensure was an appropriate and feasible goal, providers tried to help adolescents and caregivers view licensure and driving through a lens of the opportunities for independence and improving quality of life it could offer, with one provider sharing:
There’s so many benefits [of] being able to drive that far outweigh the risks. And that’s part of the conversation I have with parents. Look, I know that you’re scared, but if he can do this, this is gonna be amazing for your family, right, like, you can go on vacation and he can actually live his life without you and be fine….But I try and frame that like, this is a positive for your whole family, that they can be more independent. But it’s also a huge positive for [your child], because now they can feel like they’re not a child anymore. Like they’re starting to really, truly feel like an autonomous adult. And that’s ultimately what we want. We want them…to live a life of possibilities completely autonomous and independent as possible, the least restrictive environment. And driving is part of that.
Providers also perceived that some adolescents encountered difficulties with this emerging independence from their caregivers and perceiving a sense of self-determination: “It’s also maybe something, where for that adolescent they’re used to their parents being their caregivers, doing things for them. Where [driving] is something that you’re doing on your own and you have to have that full control.”
For adolescents for whom the decision to pursue licensure was appropriate, providers frequently discussed working to address the previously described anxieties related to driving, with one sharing: “[I] kind of just talk…how to make the decision of whether or not his discomfort is a valid concern or if it’s related to a different diagnosis of anxiety and eventually getting to the point of talking about some of this sounds like really reasonable concerns that all teenagers have about driving and not just you and really weaving it to be a family discussion that I can guide with some questions.” Providers recognized that each patient required an individualized approach to address their specific needs; for some their needs focused on physical readiness (e.g., motor control and coordination), while for others their needs centered on social and emotional readiness.
Providers believed that licensure and driving readiness were often part of a continuum to independence and their role was to “allow… or help… families realize that your teen can do these things and can have [this] – level of independence and how do you work together to get to that point.” One participant further described how becoming licensed to drive was an important developmental milestone for autistic adolescents as it is connected with “goal setting and goal achieving…this idea of setting a goal and achieving and celebrating … it resonates more [with autistic adolescents].”
Barriers Experienced in Preparing Adolescents and Families Providers’ efforts to prepare and discuss the sensitive and complex decision to pursue licensure and independent driving was not without challenges. Providers described feeling unprepared to effectively support adolescents and families in navigating decisions around licensure and driving readiness on their own, noting “if there are not appropriate resources and…if there’s not back up that clinicians can use to help families through this, then it’s a very tricky thing to be able to deal with in a quick clinic visit. And it’s potentially a very high stakes thing to talk about.” Specifically, several providers wished they knew in advance when these discussions might occur, so that they could be prepared or collect collateral information from others with knowledge of the patient, such as teachers and therapists. Additionally, providers expressed a desire for better knowledge or understanding of available community-based resources to which they could refer families, with some describing locating resources for families through their own internet searches or informal word of mouth from colleagues. One noted: “I think there are not sufficient – or not easily accessible for my patients – driver evaluations to make sure that the patient has the skill set necessary to learn to drive. So I think more programming would reduce that sort of barrier that sometimes – because again, I had to go online and find one in [County], and do a little calling and find out that it seemed to be appropriate.”
Further, providers described how limited appointment time impeded their ability to effectively counsel and prepare adolescents and their caregivers both separately and together:
I think the top barrier is just time because… we need to cover all of their regular med management topics, and then usually driving is an afterthought, so having time to get the conversation in is usually the hardest part. And then in the conversation it can be really hard because it’s oftentimes the first time anybody has sat down and talked about this all together – so either not having both parents there or having both parents on different pages, having the kid trying to turn it into an I-told-you-so, I-told-you-so, and their parents are like, whoa, whoa, we weren’t ready for this. Those tend to be the biggest barriers of this is the first time we’ve ever talked about it and not everyone is here or Mom and Dad haven’t talked about it together and don’t have a united front yet.
Providers further recognized that for some adolescents and their families, significant external factors existed, such as limited vehicle access, costliness, and safety, which were beyond providers’ ability to provide guidance to adolescents and caregivers. One provider described a common experience where a “family might only have one car and two parents and then a teen who wants to drive.” Regarding the potential costliness of obtaining specialized driving evaluation and instruction, one provider shared it would be helpful to know “how [a family] can get funding, because out-of-pocket driving lessons can be very expensive and that can be a barrier for families. So, if there were any type of special funding programs, any special agencies, that would be helpful to have, and I would give that out to families.”