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Gepubliceerd in: Journal of Rational-Emotive & Cognitive-Behavior Therapy 1/2007

01-03-2007

Treating Anger with forgiveness may sometimes require Reconciliation

Auteur: Harold B. Robb III

Gepubliceerd in: Journal of Rational-Emotive & Cognitive-Behavior Therapy | Uitgave 1/2007

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Abstract

Forgiving, long encouraged by practitioners of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), is shown to be an elegant antidote to anger requiring recognition of two things. First, what happened was bad, or wrong. Second, the author of the bad or wrong occurrence is responsible for having done it. After reviewing some basic REBT points, an analysis of self-forgiveness underlines the importance of receiving as well as issuing forgiveness and the relationship of forgiving to depression and guilt. The importance of reconciling when forgiving self, the world-in-general and, for believers, omnipresent supernatural beings is presented. Reconciliation as finding enjoyment with that which also blocks, or has blocked, the fulfillment of our desires is also discussed.
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Metagegevens
Titel
Treating Anger with forgiveness may sometimes require Reconciliation
Auteur
Harold B. Robb III
Publicatiedatum
01-03-2007
Gepubliceerd in
Journal of Rational-Emotive & Cognitive-Behavior Therapy / Uitgave 1/2007
Print ISSN: 0894-9085
Elektronisch ISSN: 1573-6563
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s10942-006-0030-5