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Kan het complimenteren van kinderen met lage zelfwaardering averechts werken? Reisverslag

Auteur: Eddie Brummelman

Gepubliceerd in: Kind en adolescent | Uitgave 2/2014

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Samenvatting

Praise, like penicillin, must not be administered haphazardly. There are rules and cautions that govern the handling of potent medicines – rules about timing and dosage, cautions about possible allergic reactions. There are similar regulations about the administration of emotional medicine.
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Metagegevens
Titel
Zoete woorden met een bittere nasmaak
Kan het complimenteren van kinderen met lage zelfwaardering averechts werken? Reisverslag
Auteur
Eddie Brummelman
Publicatiedatum
01-06-2014
Uitgeverij
Bohn Stafleu van Loghum
Gepubliceerd in
Kind en adolescent / Uitgave 2/2014
Print ISSN: 0167-2436
Elektronisch ISSN: 1876-5998
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s12453-014-0014-7

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