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Gepubliceerd in: Kind en adolescent 1/2011

01-02-2011

Stille wateren: weinig vertellen versus veel geheimhouden en probleemgedrag bij jongeren

Auteurs: Drs. L. Keijsers, Dr. T. Frijns, Dr. S. J. T. Branje, Prof. dr. W. H. J. Meeus

Gepubliceerd in: Kind en adolescent | Uitgave 1/2011

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Recent onderzoek heeft aangetoond dat jongeren die weinig vertellen aan hun ouders vaker depressief en delinquent zijn. In deze studie stelden we dat een veelgebruikt instrument om te meten hoeveel jongeren vertellen aan hun ouders mogelijk bestaat uit twee componenten: ‘geheimhouden’ en ‘vertellen’. Ook hebben we getoetst of het verband tussen het hebben van geheimen en probleemgedrag mogelijk kan verklaren waarom weinig vertellen aan ouders gerelateerd was aan probleemgedrag in eerder onderzoek. Daartoe werd gebruikgemaakt van een longitudinale dataset met vier metingen bij 309 Nederlandse adolescenten (48% jongens; eerste meting gemiddeld 13.2 jaar oud). Factoranalyses toonden aan dat ‘vertellen’ en ‘geheimen houden’ twee afzonderlijke concepten zijn. Bovendien vertoonden jongeren die veel geheim hielden een jaar later relatief meer depressie en delinquentie, terwijl een dergelijk verband niet werd gevonden voor jongeren die weinig aan hun ouders vertelden. Daarmee geeft deze studie een nieuwe interpretatie aan het werk van Stattin en Kerr en anderen: Het verband tussen weinig vertellen aan ouders en probleemgedrag wordt mogelijk verklaard door een veel sterker verband tussen het hebben van geheimen en probleemgedrag.
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Metagegevens
Titel
Stille wateren: weinig vertellen versus veel geheimhouden en probleemgedrag bij jongeren
Auteurs
Drs. L. Keijsers
Dr. T. Frijns
Dr. S. J. T. Branje
Prof. dr. W. H. J. Meeus
Publicatiedatum
01-02-2011
Uitgeverij
Bohn Stafleu van Loghum
Gepubliceerd in
Kind en adolescent / Uitgave 1/2011
Print ISSN: 0167-2436
Elektronisch ISSN: 1876-5998
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s12453-011-0003-z

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