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Omgaan met liefdesverdriet

Auteurs: Dr. Mark Meerum Terwogt, Mevr. Drs. Anneleen Mol

Gepubliceerd in: Kind en adolescent | Uitgave 3/2005

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Samenvatting

Er wordt nagegaan welke copingmechanismen adolescenten in reactie op liefdesverdriet gebruiken. Hiertoe hebben 92 zestien- tot achttienjarige respondenten tweemaal de ucl-a ingevuld, een instrument waarmee copingtendenties in kaart kunnen worden gebracht. De eerste maal gebeurde dit volgens de algemene instructie (aangeven hoe je gewoonlijk reageert op een bepaald probleem) en de tweede maal vanuit een specifieke vraag (hoe reageer je op een verbroken relatie?). Persoonlijkheidsfactoren zorgden voor een hoge correlatie tussen beide reactiepatronen. Daarnaast werd op grond van situationele en emotionele factoren verondersteld en gevonden dat het ‘Depressieve reactiepatroon’ en ‘Vermijding’ bij liefdesverdriet relatief frequent optreden, terwijl ‘Confrontatie’, ‘Emoties uiten’ en ‘Optimisme’ juist ondervertegenwoordigd zijn.
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Metagegevens
Titel
Omgaan met liefdesverdriet
Auteurs
Dr. Mark Meerum Terwogt
Mevr. Drs. Anneleen Mol
Publicatiedatum
01-09-2005
Uitgeverij
Bohn Stafleu van Loghum
Gepubliceerd in
Kind en adolescent / Uitgave 3/2005
Print ISSN: 0167-2436
Elektronisch ISSN: 1876-5998
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/BF03060955