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Self-regulation of Gendered Behavior in Everyday Life

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The present research tested whether gender self-concepts influence behavior through self-regulatory processes, with emotions and self-esteem signaling that people’s responses meet or fail to meet their gender standards. In the first study, cross-sectional survey data from 3,174 young adults living in the United States revealed that esteem increased with behavioral conformity to gender standards for personality. In the second study, an experience-sampling diary design provided a dynamic view of regulation to gender standards for personality and romance. One hundred seventy-seven American undergraduates reported their emotions and esteem immediately following everyday social interactions. As anticipated, students became more positive when they acted in ways that confirmed rather than disconfirmed personal gender standards.

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Acknowledgement

This research uses data from Add Health, a program project designed by J. Richard Udry, Peter S. Bearman, and Kathleen Mullan Harris, and funded by grant P01-HD31921 from the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, with cooperative funding from 17 other agencies. Persons interested in obtaining data files from Add Health should contact Add Health, Carolina Population Center, 123 W. Franklin Street, Chapel Hill, NC 27516-2524 (addhealth@unc.edu). The authors thank Philip Costanzo, Rick Hoyle, and Timothy Strauman for their comments on an earlier draft of the manuscript and Deborah Kashy for her help with the multilevel model analysis.

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Items from Bem (1974) Sex Role Inventory (BSRI)

Agentic

Communal

Negative

Defends beliefs

Is affectionate

Is moody

Is independent

Is conscientious

Is jealous

Is assertive

Is sympathetic

Is forceful

Is reliable

Is sensitive

Is secretive

Has a strong personality

Is understanding

Willing to take risks

Has leadership skills

Is compassionate

Is dominant

Willing to take a stand

Is truthful

Is conceited

Eager to heal hurt feelings

Is aggressive

Is warm

Is adaptable

Is tender

Loves children

Is tactful

Is gentle

Is conventional

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Witt, M.G., Wood, W. Self-regulation of Gendered Behavior in Everyday Life. Sex Roles 62, 635–646 (2010). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-010-9761-y

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