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Does Anger Towards the Partner Mediate and Moderate the Link Between Romantic Attachment and Intimate Violence?

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The goal of this study is to evaluate a theoretical model of the link between attachment andcouple violence. The hypotheses state that experience and expression of anger towards the partner would mediate and moderate the association between an insecure attachment and couple psychologicaland physical violence. A sample of 316 couples representative of the French-speaking population ofQuebec filled out the Experiences in Close Relationships questionnaire, a couple version of the State-Trait Anger Inventory, and the Revised Conflict Tactics Scales. The mediator model revealed that experience and expression of anger in couples (state anger, trait anger, and anger-out) explained the association between an insecure attachment and intimate violence. The moderator model showed that significant interactions between male anxiety over abandonment and anger indicated that anger in couples (trait anger and anger control) moderates the strength and the direction of the association between attachment and intimate physical violence. Different outcomes were obtained when gender and type of violence were considered.

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Lafontaine, MF., Lussier, Y. Does Anger Towards the Partner Mediate and Moderate the Link Between Romantic Attachment and Intimate Violence?. J Fam Viol 20, 349–361 (2005). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-005-7797-5

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