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Interpersonal Neurobiology and Couple Relationship Quality: A Longitudinal Model

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Interpersonal neurobiology is an interdisciplinary theory that is being used by couple and family therapists. However, more investigation is needed to determine if this theory can accurately explain family relationships over time. In this study, we used the nationally representative National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent to Adult Health (Add Health) dataset to examine key elements of interpersonal neurobiology theory. Using structural equation modeling, we explored how maternal and paternal support and self-acceptance during adolescence are related to emotional stability and adult couple relationship satisfaction 13 years later (N = 7864). Results indicate that self-acceptance and emotional stability are factors that contribute to couple relationship satisfaction. We conclude with clinical implications of this study, including how to use mindfulness practices to promote healthy relationships.

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Acknowledgments

This research uses data from Add Health, a program project directed by Kathleen Mullan Harris and designed by J. Richard Udry, Peter S. Bearman, and Kathleen Mullan Harris at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, and funded by Grant P01-HD31921 from the Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, with cooperative funding from 23 other federal agencies and foundations. Special acknowledgment is due Ronald R. Rindfuss and Barbara Entwisle for assistance in the original design. Information on how to obtain the Add Health data files is available on the Add Health website (http://www.cpc.unc.edu/addhealth). No direct support was received from Grant P01-HD31921 for this analysis.

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  1. Department of Human Development and Psychological Counseling, Appalachian State University, Boone, NC, 28608, USA

    Laura E. Gambrel

  2. Department of Psychology, Mount St. Mary’s University, Emmitsburg, MD, USA

    Caitlin Faas

  3. Department of Human Development, Virginia Tech, Blacksburg, VA, USA

    Christine E. Kaestle & Jyoti Savla

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Gambrel, L.E., Faas, C., Kaestle, C.E. et al. Interpersonal Neurobiology and Couple Relationship Quality: A Longitudinal Model. Contemp Fam Ther 38, 272–283 (2016). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10591-016-9381-y

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