Skip to main content
Log in

Mothers’ Socialization of Emotion Regulation: The Moderating Role of Children’s Negative Emotional Reactivity

  • Original paper
  • Published:
Child & Youth Care Forum Aims and scope Submit manuscript

Abstract

During the toddler period, children begin to shift from being primarily dependent on parents to regulate their emotions to managing their emotions independently. The present study considers how children’s propensity towards negative emotional arousal interacts with mothers’ efforts to socialize emotion regulation. Fifty-five low income mothers and their 2-year-old children completed observational assessments measuring mothers’ socialization of emotion regulation, children’s reactivity propensity, and children’s emotion regulation. Children’s propensity towards negative reactivity significantly interacted with mothers’ use of physical soothing. That is, mothers with less reactive children who used more soothing had children who were more likely to use interactive, distraction-based regulatory behaviors during a frustration situation. Theoretical and child care implications of the finding are discussed.

This is a preview of subscription content, log in via an institution to check access.

Access this article

Price excludes VAT (USA)
Tax calculation will be finalised during checkout.

Instant access to the full article PDF.

Institutional subscriptions

Fig. 1

Similar content being viewed by others

References

  • Ahn, H. J. (2005a). Teachers’ discussions of emotion in child care centers. Early Childhood Education Journal, 32, 237–242. doi:10.1007/s10643-004-1424-6.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Ahn, H. J. (2005b). Child care teachers’ strategies in children’s socialization of emotion. Early Child Development and Care, 175, 49–61. doi:10.1080/0300443042000230320.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Aiken, L. S., & West, S. G. (1991). Multiple regression: Testing and interpreting interactions. Newbury Park: Sage.

    Google Scholar 

  • Bennett, D. S., Bendersky, M., & Lewis, M. (2005). Does the organization of emotional expression change over time? Facial expressivity from 4 to 12 months. Infancy, 8, 167–187. doi:10.1207/s15327078in0802_4.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Braungart-Reiker, J. M., & Stifter, C. A. (1996). Infants’ responses to frustrating situations: Continuity and change in reactivity and regulation. Child Development, 67, 1767–1779. doi:10.2307/1131730.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Buss, K. A., & Goldsmith, H. H. (1998). Fear and anger regulation in infancy: Effects on the temporal dynamics of affective expression. Child Development, 69, 359–374.

    PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Calkins, S. D., & Johnson, M. C. (1998). Toddler regulation of distress to frustrating events: Temperamental and maternal correlates. Infant Behavior and Development, 21, 379–395. doi:10.1016/S0163-6383(98)90015-7.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Calkins, S. D., Smith, C. L., Gill, K. L., & Johnson, M. C. (1998). Maternal interactive style across contexts: Relations to emotional, behavioral, and physiological regulation during toddlerhood. Social Development, 7, 350–369. doi:10.1111/1467-9507.00072.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Calkins, S. D., Gill, K. L., Johnson, M. C., & Smith, C. L. (1999). Emotional reactivity and emotion regulation strategies as predictors of social behavior with peers during toddlerhood. Social Development, 8, 312–334. doi:10.1111/1467-9507.00098.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Calkins, S. D., Dedmon, S. E., Gill, K. L., Lomax, L. E., & Johnson, L. M. (2002). Frustration in infancy: Implications for emotion regulation, physiological processes, and temperament. Infancy, 3, 175–197. doi:10.1207/S15327078IN0302_4.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Carmichael-Olson, H., Greenberg, M. T., & Slough, N. (1985). Coding manual for the waiting task. Unpublished manual, University of Washington, Seattle.

  • Cohen, J., Cohen, P., West, S. G., & Aiken, L. S. (2003). Applied multiple regression/correlation analysis for the behavioral sciences (3rd ed.). Mahwah: Erlbaum.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cole, P. M., Zahn-Waxler, C., & Smith, K. D. (1994). Expressive control during a disappointment: Variations related to preschoolers’ behavior problems. Developmental Psychology, 30, 835–846. doi:10.1037/0012-1649.30.6.835.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Denham, S. A., Mitchell-Copeland, J., Strandberg, K., Auerbach, S., & Blair, K. (1997). Parental contributions to preschoolers’ emotional competence: Direct and indirect effects. Motivation and Emotion, 21, 65–86. doi:10.1023/A:1024426431247.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Dennis, T. A., Cole, P. M., Zahn-Waxler, C., & Mizuta, I. (2002). Self in context: Autonomy and relatedness in Japanese and U.S. mother-preschooler dyads. Child Development, 73, 1803–1817. doi:10.1111/1467-8624.00507.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Devore, W., & Schlesinger, E. G. (1987). Ethnic sensitive social work practice (2nd ed.). Columbus: Merrill.

    Google Scholar 

  • Diener, M. L., & Mangelsdorf, S. C. (1999). Behavioral strategies for emotion regulation in toddlers: Associations with maternal involvement and emotional expressions. Infant Behavior and Development, 22, 569–583. doi:10.1016/S0163-6383(00)00012-6.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Eisenberg, N., & Fabes, R. A. (1994). Mothers’ reactions to children’s negative emotions: Relations to children’s temperament and angry behavior. Merrill-Palmer Quarterly, 40, 138–156.

    Google Scholar 

  • Eisenberg, N., & Fabes, R. A. (1999). Emotion, emotion-related regulation, and quality of socio emotional functioning. In L. Balter & C. S. Tamis-LeMonda (Eds.), Child psychology: A handbook of contemporary issues (pp. 318–335). Ann Arbor: Taylor & Francis.

    Google Scholar 

  • Eisenberg, N., Fabes, R. A., Nyman, M., Bernzweig, J., & Pinuelas, A. (1994). The relations of emotionality and regulation to children’s anger-related reactions. Child Development, 65, 109–128. doi:10.2307/1131369.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Eisenberg, N., Cumberland, A., & Spinrad, T. L. (1998). Parental socialization of emotion. Psychological Inquiry, 9, 241–273. doi:10.1207/s15327965pli0904_1.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Fabes, R. A., Leonard, S. A., Kupanoff, K., & Martin, C. Y. (2001). Parental coping with children’s negative emotions: Relations with children’s emotional and social responding. Child Development, 72, 907–920. doi:10.1111/1467-8624.00323.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Fischer, R. L., Nelson, L., Mikelbank, K., & Coulton, C. (2008). Space to learn and grow: Assessing the capacity of a regional early care and education system. Child & Youth Care Forum, 37, 75–86. doi:10.1007/s10566-008-9049-3.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Fox, N. A., & Calkins, S. D. (2003). The development of self-control of emotion: Intrinsic and extrinsic influences. Motivation and Emotion, 27, 7–26. doi:10.1023/A:1023622324898.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Frick, P. J., & Morris, A. S. (2004). Temperament and developmental pathways to conduct problems. Journal of Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology, 33, 54–68. doi:10.1207/S15374424JCCP3301_6.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Garner, P. W. (2006). Prediction of prosocial and emotional competence from maternal behavior in African American preschoolers. Cultural Diversity & Ethnic Minority Psychology, 12, 179–198. doi:10.1037/1099-9809.12.2.179.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Garner, P. W., & Spears, F. M. (2000). Emotion regulation in low-income preschoolers. Social Development, 9, 246–264. doi:10.1111/1467-9507.00122.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Goldsmith, H. H., Reilly, J., Lemery, K. S., Longley, S., & Prescott, A. (1999). The laboratory temperament assessment battery: Preschool version. Unpublished manuscript.

  • Grolnick, W. S., Bridges, L. J., & Connell, J. P. (1996). Emotion regulation in two-year-olds: Strategies and emotional expression in four contexts. Child Development, 67, 928–941. doi:10.2307/1131871.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Grolnick, W. S., Kurowski, C. O., McMenamy, J. M., Rivkin, I., & Bridges, L. J. (1998). Mothers’ strategies for regulating their toddlers’ distress. Infant Behavior and Development, 21, 437–450. doi:10.1016/S0163-6383(98)90018-2.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Grolnick, W. S., McMenamy, J. M., & Kurowski, C. O. (1999). Emotional self- regulation in infancy and toddlerhood. In L. Balter & C. S. Tamis-LeMonda (Eds.), Child psychology: A handbook of contemporary issues (pp. 3–22). Ann Arbor: Taylor & Francis.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hoffman, M. L. (1983). Affective and cognitive processes in moral internalization. In E. T. Higgins, D. N. Ruble, & W. W. Hartup (Eds.), Social cognition and social development: A sociocultural perspective (pp. 236–274). Cambridge: Cambridge.

    Google Scholar 

  • Kopp, C. B. (1989). Regulation of distress and negative emotions: A developmental view. Developmental Psychology, 25, 343–354. doi:10.1037/0012-1649.25.3.343.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Korfmacher, J., Green, B., Staerkel, F., Peterson, C., Cook, G., Roggman, L., et al. (2008). Parent involvement in early childhood home visiting. Child & Youth Care Forum, 37, 171–196. doi:10.1007/s10566-008-9057-3.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • McAdoo, H. P. (1993). Ethnic families. Strengths that are found in diversity. In H. P. McAdoo (Ed.), Family ethnicity: Strength in diversity. Newbury Park: Sage.

    Google Scholar 

  • Nicholson, D., & Artz, S. (2006). Caregiving strategies for reducing aggression and violence in at-risk mothers and their babies. Child & Youth Care Forum, 35, 411–426. doi:10.1007/s10566-006-9025-8.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Patterson, G. R. (1982). Coercive family process. Eugene, OR: Castalia.

  • Preacher, K. J., Curran, P. J., & Bauer, D. J. (2003). Simple intercepts, simple slopes, and regions of significance in MLR 2-way interactions. Retrieved July 24, 2005, from University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, quantitative psychology program. URL: http://www.unc.edu/~preacher/interact/mlr2.htm.

  • Putnam, S. P., Sanson, A. V., & Rothbart, M. K. (2002). Child temperament and parenting. In M. H. Bornstein (Ed.), Handbook of parenting: Children and parenting (2nd ed., Vol. 1, pp. 255–277). Mahwah: Erlbaum.

    Google Scholar 

  • R Development Core Team. (2004). R: A language and environment for statistical computing. R foundation for statistical computing, Vienna, Austria. URL: http://www.R-project.org.

  • Ramsden, S. R., & Hubbard, J. A. (2002). Family expressiveness and parental emotion coaching: Their role in children’s emotion regulation and aggression. Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology, 30, 657–667. doi:10.1023/A:1020819915881.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Raver, C. C. (2004). Placing emotional self-regulation in sociocultural and socioeconomic contexts. Child Development, 75, 346–353. doi:10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00676.x.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Rubin, K. H., Coplan, R. J., Fox, N. A., & Calkins, S. D. (1995). Emotionality, emotion regulation, and preschoolers’ social adaptation. Development and Psychopathology, 7, 49–62.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Rubin, K. H., Burgess, K. B., Dwyer, K. M., & Hastings, P. M. (2003). Predicting preschoolers’ externalizing behaviors from toddler temperament, conflict, and maternal negativity. Developmental Psychology, 39, 164–176. doi:10.1037/0012-1649.39.1.164.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Saarni, C., Campos, J. J., Camras, L., & Witherington, D. (2006). Emotional development: Action, communication, and understanding. In W. Damon & N. Eisenberg (Eds.), Handbook of child psychology (6th ed., Vol. 3). New York: John Wiley & Sons, Inc.

  • Scaramella, L. V., & Conger, R. D. (2003). Intergenerational continuity of hostile parenting and its consequences: The moderating influence of children’s negative emotional reactivity. Social Development, 12, 420–439.

    Google Scholar 

  • Scaramella, L. V., & Leve, L. D. (2004). Clarifying parent-child reciprocities during early childhood: The early childhood coercion model. Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review, 7, 89–107. doi:10.1023/B:CCFP.0000030287.13160.a3.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Shipman, K., Schneider, R., & Brown, A. (2003). Emotion dysregulation and psychopathology. In M. Beauregard (Ed.) Consciousness, emotional self-regulation and the brain (pp. 61–85). Amsterdam: John Benjamins Publishing Company.

  • Smith, P. B., & Pederson, D. R. (1988). Maternal sensitivity and patterns of infant-mother attachment. Child Development, 59, 1097–1101. doi:10.2307/1130276.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Snyder, J., Stoolmiller, M., Wilson, M., & Yamamoto, M. (2003). Child anger regulation, parental responses to children’s anger displays, and early child antisocial behavior. Social Development, 12, 335–360.

    Google Scholar 

  • Spinrad, T. L., Stifter, C. A., Donelan-McCall, N., & Turner, L. (2004). Mothers’ regulation strategies in response to toddlers’ affect: Links to later emotion self-regulation. Social Development, 13, 40–55. doi:10.1111/j.1467-9507.2004.00256.x.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Stansbury, K., & Sigman, M. (2000). Responses of preschoolers in two frustrating episodes: Emergence of complex strategies for emotion regulation. The Journal of Genetic Psychology, 161, 182–202.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Stifter, C. A., & Braungart, J. M. (1995). The regulation of negative reactivity in infancy: Function and development. Developmental Psychology, 31, 448–455. doi:10.1037/0012-1649.31.3.448.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Tabachnick, B. G., & Fidell, L. S. (2001). Using multivariate statistics (4th ed.). Needham Heights: Allyn & Bacon.

    Google Scholar 

  • Thompson, R. A. (1994). Emotional regulation: A theme in search of definition. Monographs of the Society for Research in Child Development, 59, 25–52.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Vondra, J. I., Shaw, D. S., & Kevenides, M. C. (1995). Predicting infant attachment classification from multiple, contemporaneous measures of maternal care. Infant Behavior and Development, 18, 415–425. doi:10.1016/0163-6383(95)90031-4.

    Article  Google Scholar 

Download references

Acknowledgments

This research was supported by grants from the National Institute of Mental Health (MH63814) and a grant from the Entergy Corporation Charitable Contributions.

Author information

Authors and Affiliations

Authors

Corresponding author

Correspondence to Laura V. Scaramella.

Rights and permissions

Reprints and permissions

About this article

Cite this article

Mirabile, S.P., Scaramella, L.V., Sohr-Preston, S.L. et al. Mothers’ Socialization of Emotion Regulation: The Moderating Role of Children’s Negative Emotional Reactivity. Child Youth Care Forum 38, 19–37 (2009). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10566-008-9063-5

Download citation

  • Received:

  • Accepted:

  • Published:

  • Issue Date:

  • DOI: https://doi.org/10.1007/s10566-008-9063-5

Keywords

Navigation