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Shame, attachment, and addictions: Implications for family therapists

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Research based on attachment theory is reviewed for its relevance to the development of later addictions. The problem of internalized shame as an attachment related issue is discussed. Some original research into internalized shame using the Internalized Shame Scale is summarized. The relevance of this research and theory for family of origin based treatment of addictions is explored.

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Cook, D.R. Shame, attachment, and addictions: Implications for family therapists. Contemp Fam Ther 13, 405–419 (1991). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00890495

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