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Caregiving in Middle Childhood: Coping with Typical and Atypical Development

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Middle childhood. Few scholars have described what it feels like better than A. A. Milne, in his essay, “In Which Pooh Goes Visiting and Gets Into a Tight Place.” Winnie-the-Pooh ate way, way too much honey and became stuck while climbing through the hole to leave Rabbit’s house.

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Blacher, J., Feinfield, K.A. (2013). Caregiving in Middle Childhood: Coping with Typical and Atypical Development. In: Talley, R., Montgomery, R. (eds) Caregiving Across the Lifespan. Caregiving: Research • Practice • Policy. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4614-5553-0_3

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