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Consensual Non-Monogamies in Industrialized Nations

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Consensual non-monogamies (CNM) include relationship practices that allow individuals to openly have multiple partners. In this chapter we introduce and describe the diverse forms of CNM, distinguishing them from more prominently known forms of multiple partner relationships such as polygyny and cheating. This chapter explores the various types of CNM that are practiced in industrialized nations today, such as swinging, polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy, and monogamish relationships. We highlight the commonalities among these variations of CNM, specifically the importance of honesty, open communication, and negotiation, which serve CNM practitioners in crafting guidelines to structure their personal relationships. We close with a discussion of the theories and methods popular in CNM research, as well as recommendations for future research.

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Notes

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    The polyamorous community and academic groups that have discussed secondary status include Polyfamilies, PolyResearchers, Lovingmore, More Than Two, Fetlife, and LiveJournal at the minimum and probably many, many more.

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    The GSS Non-Monogamies Collective submitted a module to the General Social Survey for the 2016 survey. While the module was not selected for inclusion in the GSS, researchers are attempting to pilot-test it online and eventually establish its reliability in order to resubmit it to additional surveys. Please contact Elisabeth Sheff at drelisheff@gmail.com for more information.

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Sheff, E., Tesene, M. (2015). Consensual Non-Monogamies in Industrialized Nations. In: DeLamater, J., Plante, R. (eds) Handbook of the Sociology of Sexualities. Handbooks of Sociology and Social Research. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-17341-2_13

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