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General systems theory concepts, such as reciprocal causality and nested systems, compel a re-conceptualization of how families work. However, the application of systems theory to families (i.e. family systems theory) is short on theoretical specifics in regard to the internal functions of families. While family systems theory identifies important family processes it often overlooks the content of what family members share. Comments are offered on Gauthier and Moody (Chap. 5) and Cummings, Bergman, and Kuznicki (Chap. 6) with an eye toward the value of theoretical development. My own conceptual writings are discussed as examples of the potential value in applying systems theory to the study of families. In particular, I discuss hypotheses about (1) the “deep” meaning of family conflicts (i.e. power struggles or love struggles) and (2) emotions that motivate important relationship behavior in families (e.g., attachment, fight or flight).
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Emery, R. (2014). Families as Systems: Some Thoughts on Methods and Theory. In: McHale, S., Amato, P., Booth, A. (eds) Emerging Methods in Family Research. National Symposium on Family Issues, vol 4. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-01562-0_7
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