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Life After Loss: Psychodynamic Perspectives on a Continuing Bonds Approach with “Pet Companion”

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As evident in the chapters that make up this anthology, there has been an evolving perspective in the field of mental health regarding pet loss as a significant clinical matter. Attachment and loss issues related to a pet companion seem to have gained greater awareness, if not acceptance, in some parts of society, based on the recent volume of journal articles, book chapters, and books written for a professional audience. In order to provide the best therapeutic care, various clinical and research approaches may be reexamined in light of those working with pet-related issues.

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Blazina, C. (2011). Life After Loss: Psychodynamic Perspectives on a Continuing Bonds Approach with “Pet Companion”. In: Blazina, C., Boyraz, G., Shen-Miller, D. (eds) The Psychology of the Human-Animal Bond. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4419-9761-6_12

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